Committing to a Relationship – What does it mean?

If you say you’re in a committed relationship, what does that mean? What are you actually committing to? If I ask some people who claim to be in committed relationships what they mean by it, they might say things like: I’m committed to my partner. This answer is pretty vague, wouldn’t you agree? It could…

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First Porn Experience

Back in my schooldays, Internet was not so prevalent and pornography was a treasured and rare commodity. I still remember the first time I was introduced to porno. It was at a friend’s house after school. We were playing Super Mario on Nintendo when all of a sudden my friend Nick blurted out,” Eh you…

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Drugs.

Drugs can be harmful to the individual and to society in general. But so are a lot of other things. Top on the list would be substances like alcohol and cigarettes. In fact, alcohol has been ranked as the world’s most harmful drug in a recent study. It tops even drugs that are widely hated…

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The First Night

After shower, we gathered around to play cards and I showed them some magic card tricks. Very soon, almost all the prisoners were gathered around me, being entertained and laughing as if we were all at a cafe. For a moment, we forgot our sorrows and fears and were lost in the surreal world of…

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The girl with the long nipple

When I was studying in the university, I got to know this girl who stayed in the same hostel as me. We were both involved in putting up some kind of theater performance for the hall. This particular girl, let’s call her Feline, was not particularly beautiful but she exalts a certain kind of boyish…

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First Shower in Prison

Alexi and Andry sat me down to give me a brief about some unspoken rules in prison. Andry told me that if I had wanted to buy anything such as cigarettes, food or drinks, I can pass the money to Alexi and he can help me. I was eager to please and took out 100,000…

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The Funny Guy who Shat his pants

Did you know that you can actually shit your pants without knowing it if you are drunk enough? A couple of months back, I was with a group of my buddies partying at a club called Dragonfly. It was a Friday night and the place was packed to the brim. Fortunately for us, the manager…

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Kill. Marry. Fuck.

For those of you who don’t know where is Movida, it’s one of the clubs @ St James Power Station. This particular venue features Latin music and boasts a more English speaking crowd. It’s not one of my favorite clubs but on days where we aren’t able to get a good table @ DragonFly, we…

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The Indian Family

I have been trying to be positive lately and given my circumstances, it’s really not that easy. But the truth is that no matter what circumstances life throw us, we can still choose to be happy. There’s an old Chinese saying “If the skies fall down on us, treat it as a blanket.” But today,…

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Approaching women in nightspots

No matter how hard you try to deny it, most men who go to nightspots would hope to get lucky. By getting lucky, I mean approaching women/get approached by women and ends up having sex, hopefully for free. However, most men lack the balls to approach and a large percentage of guys who approach often…

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